i have always thought that the ideal thing would be to marry a guy i've been dating for a long long while, like 9 years at least?
that being said, if i intend to wed before i hit the big 3, i should be dating my future husband now.

however, recently i am starting to realise another point of view.
our way of thinking change throughout life and it is is difficult to say that the guy you think is right for you at 21years old will remain the suitable one years later.
i guess that is why youngsters are often advised against dating too early.

my question then is, what is the right age that i can trust myself to make a wise decision?